Joker and Harley Quinn Mentors

I had a friend tell me the other day his main goal or mentor in life that he wants to continue to be like is none other the Joker in the ever so popular comic book/movies Batman. He is on a desperate mission to find his Harley Quinn even if she is currently dating a mother man, dying her hair purple, and then professing opportunity through flirting with other men. I picked on him and then realized how many times I journaled about this turn of the times when Suicide Squad came out.

At the time suicide squad came out I was heavy into my breakup and naturally a rebound relationship has blossomed that I didn’t mean to jump into in my sane mind but boy ohhhh boyyyy did that roller coaster feel nice in the midst of loneliness and regret. One of his main references when we would get in these nasty arguments was none other than the joker. Which came as far as me changing his contact picture to exactly the picture he would send me when he was “done.”

Now props to that fling I had because he actually was a young student of D.C. Comic theories and not just a mindless movie watcher. 😜

Is emotion that awful in our society that our number one mentor has become a sociopathic, emotionless, feelingless, poser kind of being? The joker has no emotion he is just operating off of a game of chess with Batman just because he can. My darlings Joker is no leader he is only a little boy with daddy issues poking at the justice leader of the town because well he can. He isn’t leasing crusade when his time is occupied following Batman everymove to prevent getting caught in his newest creations. He is a blown up version of pinky and the brain. He’s “brain” surrounded by a whole bunch of pinky(s) that can’t grasp the bigger picture for fear of losing their high in the moment. Do we really want to be emotionless? Some of the most beautiful creations come out of extremely dark circumstance. Harley Quinn settled for his high because she is yearning for depth with a man that has no true care or emotion for her. The newest movie paints a beautiful picture of these two but we have to lose sight of the adrenaline rush and focus on the scene where he was giving his girl to another man. Let’s focus on all the exerts in the comic books that paints her to be an emotional clinger to the Joker that just annoys him. 

You could also look for similar mentors in Hitler, Napoleon, or any from the individuals in this link below:


My favorite is Elizabeth Bathory who drank the blood of the woman she slaughtered…now that’s a Harley Quinn Mr Jokers looking for such a lady. 

I believe we’ve lost sight as a society what true cruelty is and what rare yet most powerful fear these individuals pass out. With all these loose terminologies that paint anxiety to be bad or a permanent chemical imbalance. Check out the facts that no pill is proven…but one thing that can’t be argued is choice and there are many things we can choose to do when down in the dumps. Cutting people’s heads off…not a good idea!   

Ladies that admire Harley Quinn as a mentor….Men that have no empathy are cowards darlings and if you want that in your life than your fears are also outweighing your focus and purpose. Gentlemen gentlemen gentlemen….step up and move on from the concept you can’t hide from emotions for fear of stupid tagline “acting like a girl.” 

Earn your living build your wealth…protect your family at all costs…that starts with exploring emotions, respect, knowledge, and choices! 

Anxiety · closure · Love · Positivity · power · Strength · Uncategorized

Be The Change; Be The Love

What can life’s let downs teach us? What is the major lesson they hold so tightly within themselves? Let downs can break your heart. Betrayal can tear your belief system apart. The ripple effect is usually hope broken, faith trampled on, any commitment is now feared. We grow more comforted by lack of empathy than actually absorbing the anxiety that is at hand. The empty dark emotional part of our soul that is just begging for attention. When ignored our mind translates our actions into a lonliness angst that haunts our every move. It is almost like a rain cloud that continues to pour the rain of tears that we fear the most. Snap out of it darling…here is the tough love at hand. It was also your fault. It is your fault that you faced something. You committed to something and it was a bad investment. Now it is your responsibility to face the fear of the next commitment and realize the anxiety you feel is so beautiful. The most amazing creations come out of darkness. Identify the depth and the unknown. Use your purpose. Use your story to pull you up. The next time you are let down it will not be unfamiliar. It will not be unknown. It will be more growth that you will embrace and use all the more. We are not rare breeds. Our stories are not made of rare principles. We have basic needs and when they are unmet you have two choices. You can be the change you want to see in your situation or you can live to pay the same letdown forward and bring someone else to your level of hurt because your misery needs company. The greatest advice that is lived is being the change. It is holding on to the hope you originally had and never giving up on it even when you have to love in silence. If you truly loved unconditionally you love even when you feel disapproval. You love through others naysayers and hatred. Fear and hope are equally powerful emotions that derive from your decisions. Choose wisely and ride the waves of time.


Justice · parenting · Positivity · Strength · Uncategorized

What about the journey?


What about your journey when you look back on everything you have trampled over and trudged through?? What about the parts of the journey where you almost gave up? That journey up until this moment that leave you in nostalgia for just a couple more feelers. We don’t wish for sanity in every moment because that would just be boredom. We shouldn’t wish for comfort because that just means we aren’t moving. Life flashes before our eyes so fast it is easy to lose sight of how beautiful the journey is and all the minor details that are overlooked by others because its none of their own. Anyone can’t point fingers to judge to one moment that they believe was a wrong move but guess what….they wouldn’t have made as wise of a decision as you have because you are a fearless contagious bountiful spirit that will not quit standing for what is right for fear that someone that believes themselves to be any less strong will give up and feel inadequate. You don’t waste your time pointing out others flaws because you value the complexity of the fearless powerful life you live. The toxic pointers will find their way pointing at someone else and you will quietly slip by as you build your empire on a foundation of truth, justice, and unconditional love. Those that find you intimidating will join forces on one side or the other. It is not something we should waste any breaths on beyond the needed venting. It is not a power we earn in life… it is a power we naturally have and to only use when the odds are claimed to be against us.  What a breath of fresh air is today as you might be getting through a tough time as we all have.  :*